If you visit either Maryland or Delaware, you'll want to order seafood. With the Chesapeake Bay and Atlantic Ocean so close, seafood is taken very seriously here. Crabs used to be available only in the summer, but now you can get crab served any which way year-round. Alas, the crabmeat is often imported from southern waters or, even more shocking, from Asia. It's all blue crab, but it isn't all the same.
The good news is that local cooks have come up with the most creative ways to prepare it: soups (white cream of crab or red Maryland crab soups), crab dip, chicken and steak topped with crabmeat, and crab Imperial, a rich crab dish topped with a mayo mixture and broiled.
By far, though, the most popular ways to enjoy crab is steamed or as a crab cake.
Steamed crabs come piled high under a spicy dose of Old Bay Seasoning. Go ahead, grab a mallet and a knife and get your hands dirty. (Someone will show you how to open the crab.) You'll be delighted by the sweet white meat hidden underneath that bright red shell.
If that's too messy, crab cakes, prepared broiled or fried, are the area's most perfect food.
If the month ends in an r, it's oyster season. Fried, swimming in a milky stew, or raw on the half shell, oysters are a seasonal delight that were the cause of "Oyster Wars" a century ago.
Fish lovers await the short seasons for roe shad and rockfish (striped bass) every year. They appear as specials on restaurant menus.
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Fried chicken fans, though, never have to wait for their favorite dish. Farmers on Delaware and Maryland's Eastern Shore raise thousands of chickens year-round. You'll see Maryland fried chicken on menus, but no one agrees on what that actually is. Often it comes with cream gravy and is deep-fried with a crispy bread coating.
With an international mix of cultures in both states, you'll likely to find any kind of ethnic food you want. Sure, you'll find plenty of Italian and German and Irish dishes from restaurateurs whose ancestors came from the old country. But now, Latino food is growing in popularity with the increase in immigrants from Latin America, especially on the Eastern Shore, in Delaware, and in Baltimore's Fell's Point neighborhood.
Thai, Ethiopian, and Indian foods are appearing on more menus, as well. Tapas and "small plates" may be so yesterday in other parts of the United States, but here, diners are holding on to the concept, thrilled to be able to try so many things without wearing their slacks with the elastic waist.
Diners have become adventurous eaters here, willing to try everything. So restaurants have expanded, improved, and challenged their palates. Nevertheless, show up in a Baltimore diner and you're bound to hear, "What'll you have, hon?" The waitress is asking in the friendliest of ways.
Dining around here is casual -- especially at the seafood houses. In fact, there you can expect to find paper on the table and maybe even a roll of paper towels nearby instead of napkins.
So, unless you're celebrating at Wilmington's Green Room or Baltimore's Prime Rib, you can leave your jacket or cocktail dress at home. "Smart casual" is fine. A pair of clean slacks and polo shirt or sweater is fine for both men and women almost everywhere.
People tend to dine early here. In fact, the most popular time for a reservation in Baltimore is 7pm. At the beach, the lines get really long at no-reservation restaurants at about that time, too. By 9pm, most people have gone home, and the kitchen staff is cleaning up. To skip the crowds, stop on a weeknight or plan on an early or later dinner. You'll get a better table and probably a special deal, too; restaurants are getting creative at finding ways to fill tables during those quiet times.
Lunchtime starts promptly at noon around here, too. By 12:30pm, the crush is on. But lunch is usually served until 2pm or later.
Beer tastes better after an afternoon of paddling, so Quest Fitness & Kayak (tel. 302/644-7020; www.questfitnesskayak.com) in Lewes has combined a tour of the lazy Broadkill River with a pint and tour of Dogfish Head Brewery in nearby Milton. Don't worry, you won't be pulling up a kayak to the brewery door. After paddling, your guide will drive you to the brewery -- no drinking and paddling to worry about. Reservations are required.
Chicken tastes better when it's been barbecued by the Kiwanis. Or the Knights of Columbus. Or the Lions Club. Don't believe it? Drive down Route 404 or Route 50 toward the Atlantic beaches on a summer weekend and stop at one of the roadside stands. For less than $10, you'll get some of the best grilled chicken -- most likely from birds raised in one of the numerous chicken coops nearby. The stands sit silent most of the year, but 1 day a week through the summer, fragrant smoke fills the air enticing passersby to stop.
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