Fitting right in with acronym-happy Singapore, DYMK, or "Does Your Mother Know," is a cozy gay bar in Chinatown, smack dab in the middle of the island's gay scene in and around Neil Road .  For a relaxing night out for drinks and civilized conversation, this bar-cum-café is a gay bar with class (more so than the somewhat seedy pick-up scenes at the nearby Backstreet and Tantric). Set in a lovely converted shophouse over two levels, service is friendly and the overall ambiance is welcoming with comfy furniture and just the right dose of kitsch.