Arubans seem genuinely confounded when asked about homophobia on the island. People here pride themselves on Aruba's diversity, and most are gentle and remarkably nonjudgmental, certainly of tourists, but also of their gay and lesbian neighbors. Compared to notoriously homophobic Jamaica and Grand Cayman Island, Aruba is truly gay-friendly. Homosexuality is a nonissue here.
Some Arubans are out, especially those under age 40; others aren't. Those who are live pretty much like their straight friends and family. Gay visibility, especially in the hotel, restaurant, and entertainment industries, is undeniable. The influx of no-apologies gay Latinos over the past few years has increased gay visibility significantly. And if it's any indication, the island's top show for almost a decade was a drag-queen extravaganza.
If you want help planning your trip, the International Gay & Lesbian Travel Association (tel. 800/448-8550 or 954/776-2626; www.iglta.org) can link you with gay-friendly tour specialists. Out & About (www.outandabout.com) offers a monthly newsletter packed with good information on the global gay and lesbian travel scene, with specific information about Aruba. The website also features links to gay and lesbian tour operators and other gay-themed travel links.
